Life is what happens while you're making plans. My life is half over (if I'm lucky) and I'm still trying to figure it out. It certainly sucks from time to time, but like the weather, the rain never stays forever and the good times come around again. But, you don't know what hasn't happened yet, so you keep on tryin'. That's my take, at least.
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Posts: 8410 From: Endwell, NY Registered: Jan 2005
Well, let me tell you something. First, you are the most attractive guy I have ever met! Why, if I wasn't married...
Seriously, my sister-in-law who was in the worst place ever, living with us, didn't have nuthin... Anyway, she went online and decided to post her pic on a local dating site. Met a real nice guy, has been with him for a whole week now and they'er getting married... opps, did I say a week, I meant 2 years, and they're getting married. Great guy, deffinitely not the type of guy she would have met some other way. Have you thought about that route? Seems like a decent way to meet the right person or at least get a start. Just a note, don't worry about that hump on your back.
Well, let me tell you something. First, you are the most attractive guy I have ever met! Why, if I wasn't married...
Seriously, my sister-in-law who was in the worst place ever, living with us, didn't have nuthin... Anyway, she went online and decided to post her pic on a local dating site. Met a real nice guy, has been with him for a whole week now and they'er getting married... opps, did I say a week, I meant 2 years, and they're getting married. Great guy, deffinitely not the type of guy she would have met some other way. Have you thought about that route? Seems like a decent way to meet the right person or at least get a start. Just a note, don't worry about that hump on your back.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Andrew
Im done meeting people online.............
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10:32 PM
Patrick Member
Posts: 37674 From: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Registered: Apr 99
I'm with loki .. F the world , nothing but a bunch of two timing scum bags trying to take you for all your worth, now I'll give anyone a first chance , if they F it up .. then i'll take em for all their worth. The world isnt worth my time. and im beginning to believe women arnt either. so im just gonna love my car and carry on. FOOL gimmie your money , oh and im spiteful as all get out.. And yea meeting people online is annoying half the time. i've tried.
Hey, hang in there. But who am I to talk. I live in the middle of a total sausagefest. Plus every reasonably attractive woman my age (40's) is "pulling a Demi". For the most part online dating only works for women. Have you ever looked into how the "affiliate" program works? It'll make you sick and decide to never pay for an online dating service again. But I finally made a resolution this past New Years, "If it isn't working, try something new". The grass is greener, seriously, elsewhere. I've been offered a decent paying job in Prague and a really high paying one in Bagdad. Anybody got a coin?
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cliffw Member
Posts: 36762 From: Bandera, Texas, USA Registered: Jun 2003
Originally posted by Loki: Well, got a decent job, just cant find woman to take me for me.....Life can kiss my white non-hairy ass........
I used to think like that. It took awhile, but I did find a good woman who can take me for me. I am your poster boy for hope. Hang in there Loki. It was me against life and as far as I was concerned, life could kiss my ass too. I just made myself happy with myself, by myself, and did not worry about the grass on the other side of the fence. Or the cows eating it, no matter how good they looked It gets to the point that they can not stand you being happy with yourself and they want some of it too. I stayed true to my principles and would have no time, none at all, for those who could not take me as I am. I am not a pretender anyway.
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Wichita Member
Posts: 20686 From: Wichita, Kansas Registered: Jun 2002
Sad thing is, not a single wise ass remark from anyone even makes me crack a smile.....Im doing all I can to hold back the tears......And im loosing that battle
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Posts: 421 From: Niceville, FL. USA Registered: Nov 1999
heh i know how ya feel dude... meditation? it helps me sometimes, go scream at some random old lady on the street .. Im just kidding but it might be funny if you did and video taped it.. be all "I HATE MY LIFE!" and she'd smack you with her purse ..
heh , Hey if your bored and are really feeling like crap , shoot me an IM on AIM if you can @ weponhead < -- no typos.. seriously, i'll talk i dunno if you can get on that at work tho.
Im on a web based Yahoo here at work...So I cant add people...Try and send me one im michael_from_tx
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heh , Hey if your bored and are really feeling like crap , shoot me an IM on AIM if you can @ weponhead < -- no typos.. seriously, i'll talk i dunno if you can get on that at work tho.
Cry Loki, just let it out man. Work, Home, Car...anywhere you feel comfortable. No one person is worth you being super miserable. I learned that the hard way man. Cmon just keep your head up. Just a while longer man, just a little longer.
Im no stranger to crying. And yes, I am a man who admits that. Ive cried enough im feeling sick..I just want to go home.
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Cry Loki, just let it out man. Work, Home, Car...anywhere you feel comfortable. No one person is worth you being super miserable. I learned that the hard way man. Cmon just keep your head up. Just a while longer man, just a little longer.
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Patrick Member
Posts: 37674 From: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Registered: Apr 99
Ah, I think I see what part of your problem is - you remember dates. No regular guy remembers dates. No regular guy has the time (or the inclination!) to remember silly things like anniversaries, birthdays, etc. Geez, it’s all I can do to remember how the damn transmission I took out several months ago is going to go back into my Fiero!
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lurker Member
Posts: 12353 From: salisbury nc usa Registered: Feb 2002
No other guy..(Her mom would kill her) As far as I can understand, she cant see herself with me /loving me in the future.... Im waiting on her mom to find something out.
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well, did she say why? is there another guy? (isnt there always?) not spending enought time/money on her?
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lurker Member
Posts: 12353 From: salisbury nc usa Registered: Feb 2002
forget her. (i know,easier said than done) after 3 months, she's looking for commitment, but not with you. there are lots of women out there, but this one wasnt yours. you got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess.
I dont even think she wants commiment right now........Hell I dont know.....I give up on everything right now.
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forget her. (i know,easier said than done) after 3 months, she's looking for commitment, but not with you. there are lots of women out there, but this one wasnt yours. you got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess.
No other guy..(Her mom would kill her) As far as I can understand, she cant see herself with me /loving me in the future.... Im waiting on her mom to find something out.
If she said that: "she cant see herself with me /loving me in the future...." Then don't waste your time. You want to be with someone that doesn't have to try to care about you. They will WANT to be with you. Especially in the beginning... if you two have only been going out for a little while, and she's already showing signs that she's not "into" you, don't waste TOO much time trying to find out why...Even if you wnat to fins out why you aren't "worthy" of her , I betcha she has her share of issues. If she's like that NOW, you'll end up being "the fixes" and get lost in her problems. You'll lose yerself...
Also, remember that you're working those weird hours, and that can make you a bit emotional.