I am goddam ****ing sick and ****ing tired of this place, and the relationsip.
the wifes cats piss everywhere......carpets, clothes...........walk into this house and all you can smell is amoinia. cat piss. She dont give a **** , she "loves the animals", I cant have anybody over, the smell of cat piss is not only embarising, it would make you puke.
Its been a year. I've given her a chance to change. I've ****ing had enough of smelling cat piss.
which, guys, means I'll probably be offline for a while.
I've decided the relationship is over, she want the cats--she can ****ing well have them, but she cant have me in the same house.
I've already started packing. I'll try to check in over the week.
The cat must have been abandoned when it was real young. All of our cats use the liter box, if you keep it clean they will use it. The older ones will go to the door like a dog would. Our SPCA has spray that will take the odor out of the carpets and you can put it in the wash if you need to, its cheaper than Walmart
I don’t think its just the cat, I am sorry for your troubles but sometimes it takes some time away from each other to see how much you really mean to each other. I hope things work out for you. Jake
Naw jake.......gizmo and cleo are twin black persians. we got them as kittens. the litterboxes are cleaned every day (by me). they are just not "house-kind" cats. They both been neutered, are fed REAL well.............and insist on pissing on every piece of fabric in sight.
Not that I care anymore.
Its down to one issue in this marrage.
will I or wont I live in a hose that smells to high-****ing heaven of cat piss.
Nope, I wont.
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under8ted Member
Posts: 1108 From: Sparta, ON, Canada Registered: Mar 2006
I was sympathetic to your cause until I read your post in the other thread. I'm now positive there's more to your marriage problems than just cat piss.
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sostock Member
Posts: 5907 From: Grain Valley, MO Registered: May 2005
sorry man that sucks. i had the same problem with my wife's cats. i couldn't stand them pissing and throwing up hairballs all over the house. moved them both to the utility room in the basement with a concrete floor. they never see daylight and don't get much attention but seem to be doing fine.
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avengador1 Member
Posts: 35468 From: Orlando, Florida Registered: Oct 2001
Call the department of health and let them know about the living conditions in your house. I'm sure they will be glad to relocate the cats as it probably isn't healthy for them either. Your going to have to pay for a clean up though.
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under8ted Member
Posts: 1108 From: Sparta, ON, Canada Registered: Mar 2006
Call the department of health and let them know about the living conditions in your house. I'm sure they will be glad to relocate the cats as it probably isn't healthy for them either. Your going to have to pay for a clean up though.
Thanks man.........but I'm not willing to hurt her. she loves the critters, but she just dont get it, I'm not going to destroy her over it..............just get my own ass out of here.
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cccharlie Member
Posts: 2006 From: North Smithfield, RI Registered: Jan 2003
Call the department of health and let them know about the living conditions in your house. I'm sure they will be glad to relocate the cats as it probably isn't healthy for them either. Your going to have to pay for a clean up though.
Yup.
Call the DOH. Call animal control. Call the building inspector. Call the ASPCA.
Of course, youre gonna be in the dog house when its over anyway.
Might be able to put in an anonymous call to them. Then it could look like one of the neighbors called. It does sound like it may not be a healthy environment for you, your wife, or the animals. My little brother had a situation like that once. He lived alone, had like six cats and two dogs. But spent most of his time over at his girlfriend's house and the animals suffered because of it.
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84fierotrevor Member
Posts: 4998 From: puyallup washington Registered: Oct 2001
Call the cops, cause I don't give **** . there is plenty of ways to deal with 2 cats pissing on stuff. you obveisly have other problems with your marriage, I think the cats is just a excuse for you to use. I also think you have some mental problems.
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lurker Member
Posts: 12355 From: salisbury nc usa Registered: Feb 2002
put the cats outside. feed them outside, pet them outside, let them pee outside. when she lets them back in, put them outside again. wash, rinse, repeat.
in theory, a marriage is more important than cats, or cat piss. but i can understand the frustration and disgust. you might want to seek marriage counselling, but if you or she dont want it, then youre done anyway, and it's time to move on.
Originally posted by under8ted: Thanks man.........but I'm not willing to hurt her. she loves the critters, but she just dont get it, I'm not going to destroy her over it..............just get my own ass out of here.
Not willing to hurt her over some cats pissing over everything of yours, yet you think "the only good cop is a dead cop"? Get animal control to come out. It isn't safe for the animals, and it isn't a good habit for your wife. If you care about her, you'll help her. Unless you want her to end up as "the cat lady" with about 100 cats all living in her place.
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Boondawg Member
Posts: 38235 From: Displaced Alaskan Registered: Jun 2003
Cats, no cats, I think when it comes to the point where a man leaves in his head, he's already gone.
"I've tried, but I just can't live like this anymore."
At that point, I think it's over.
And has others have said, it's usualy more then just the reason a person claims. For every main reason, theres a hundred little ones. But it really comes down to one. You just don't love her anymore. At least not enough to put up with all the bad points anymore. When the bad outweighs the good, your done. And then you can hardly EVER make it right. It's just NEVER the same. It's really quite sad.
Good luck.
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84fierotrevor Member
Posts: 4998 From: puyallup washington Registered: Oct 2001
Remember if she doesn't let you take your stuff from the house, Don't call the cops, they will just side with here cause thats tha bad thing to do, instead beat her tell you can get your **** back.......Just remember for some crazy reason cops will get you for that too. damn nazi cops won't even let you beat your own wife. wtf is this world comming too....
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Vonov Member
Posts: 3745 From: Nashville,TN,USA Registered: May 2004
Holy Crap Man! Life with a wife is one where the two of you share things that you both enjoy, compliment each other, are each others best friends... It sounds to me like you're both a little nutty and would probably be better off leaving her to her vices and head for them thar hills.
You don't want to hurt her feelings yet you rant about the problem? You're not being fair to yourself. She's not being fair to you. I can't imagine what would make a person so special that I would want to live the way you describe. Build a shed out back and let her play Dr. Doolittle in there or, give your heart and sanity a break and move on. Life's too short to go home every day and have to put up with a life like the one you describe. I have to go take one of my pills now, your story has got me all flustered.
Hey, let's not jack this guys thread with stuff from the past. Last thing I need is to get on his shididit list! Poor guy has enough problems.
Answer to your question: this past friday. Boy did I give my neighbor a tongue lashing about my lawn being so high and how I do everything I can for all my neighbors. The cool thing is that he and his wife came over to the house shortly thereafter and appologized. Heheheheheheheeee
Hey, let's not jack this guys thread with stuff from the past. Last thing I need is to get on his shididit list! Poor guy has enough problems.
Answer to your question: this past friday. Boy did I give my neighbor a tongue lashing about my lawn being so high and how I do everything I can for all my neighbors. The cool thing is that he and his wife came over to the house shortly thereafter and appologized. Heheheheheheheeee
They dont want to tick off the ex-con Welcome back.
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The Aura Member
Posts: 2290 From: Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada Registered: Nov 2001
Your going to have to pay for a clean up though.
