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R.I.P. Gecko by twofatguys
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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:29 AM Click Here to See the Profile for twofatguysSend a Private Message to twofatguysDirect Link to This Post
The wife and I were talking earlier and she mentioned that he hadn't been on facebook for the past few weeks. I went to send him a message and apparently he had a heart attack at a friends house after work last month. The family is not releasing any information, and so far is attacking anyone online who asks for information because (as they are saying) we were not Johns real friends.

I know I had a lot of long, late night talks with John, and quite a few laughs.

John Hegedus AKA Gecko
1-2-72 ~~ 7-10-12





You will be missed man.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:34 AM Click Here to See the Profile for E.FurgalSend a Private Message to E.FurgalDirect Link to This Post
sorry for your loss..
but don't get the riff about the real friends thing..
other than they would know the day of, or at least week of..

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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:43 AM Click Here to See the Profile for TheDigitalAlchemistClick Here to visit TheDigitalAlchemist's HomePageSend a Private Message to TheDigitalAlchemistDirect Link to This Post
WHAT?!?!



Wow...



Ugh
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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:44 AM Click Here to See the Profile for skuzzbomerSend a Private Message to skuzzbomerDirect Link to This Post
Seems too young to go out that way...

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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:59 AM Click Here to See the Profile for PatrickSend a Private Message to PatrickDirect Link to This Post
 
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Originally posted by twofatguys:

John Hegedus AKA Gecko
1-2-72 ~~ 7-10-12


Damn. I'm really shocked to hear that. Shocked and disappointed and upset and... damn.

John had a love of critters (hence his username) and in many threads here over the years we talked about lizards and such. Damn.

Brad, thanks very much for sharing what you know. Not the kind of news we want to hear, but it's important nevertheless.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 02:08 AM Click Here to See the Profile for theBDubSend a Private Message to theBDubDirect Link to This Post
Sounds to me like they are just lashing out in a time of emotional distress. I can't think of a reason why those here who have befriended him through the years would not be qualified to know based on the family's arbitrary assignment of what they believe his "real" friends were and were not.

Seems to me John believed Brad to be a friend, as they both accepted friendship status online.


I didn't know him well, but it always stinks to lose another forum member. I do remember his posts, and it's always shocking to think conversations permanently saved online are sometimes between someone alive and gone. Thanks for the heads up, Brad.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 03:08 AM Click Here to See the Profile for fierobearSend a Private Message to fierobearDirect Link to This Post
I knew him when he lived here in California, and I'm glad I was able to hear about it. That's shocking. The guy was young. Damn. RIP, dude.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 03:18 AM Click Here to See the Profile for fierofetishSend a Private Message to fierofetishDirect Link to This Post
I am absolutely shocked. And dismayed. Looks like I shall be keeping a few more special emails and PM's along with the one I treasure from David Pendergast, and a few others from some very kind and special people I have met here, and who have passed on.
I am so sorry to hear this. And I am also very sorry his family are so upset and lashing out like that.
RIP Gecko.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 05:58 AM Click Here to See the Profile for RaydarSend a Private Message to RaydarDirect Link to This Post
I didn't know him, but I offer my condolences to his friends.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 06:09 AM Click Here to See the Profile for Gokart MozartClick Here to visit Gokart Mozart's HomePageSend a Private Message to Gokart MozartDirect Link to This Post
Thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. He will be missed here.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 07:14 AM Click Here to See the Profile for fierofetishSend a Private Message to fierofetishDirect Link to This Post
The 'family' wanted nothing to do with him at one time, when he really needed them; now they want to slag off friends who DID step in. I regret the passing of their relative sincerely, but their behaviour now regarding people whom HE considered friends, and they now consider NOT to be, is reprehensible, IMHO.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 07:19 AM Click Here to See the Profile for 8BallSend a Private Message to 8BallDirect Link to This Post
Wow, I am so sorry to hear about John. He was a good man.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 07:41 AM Click Here to See the Profile for TheDigitalAlchemistClick Here to visit TheDigitalAlchemist's HomePageSend a Private Message to TheDigitalAlchemistDirect Link to This Post
Just so sad to hear he's gone...
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Report this Post08-13-2012 08:36 AM Click Here to See the Profile for Tony KaniaSend a Private Message to Tony KaniaDirect Link to This Post
Gecko, you were a great member. I rated you positive for your help with an issue that I had. You will be missed fine sir. I am so very sorry.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 09:58 AM Click Here to See the Profile for doug.sClick Here to visit doug.s's HomePageSend a Private Message to doug.sDirect Link to This Post
RIP John, you will be missed
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Report this Post08-13-2012 09:59 AM Click Here to See the Profile for 84fiero123Send a Private Message to 84fiero123Direct Link to This Post
A loss of a forum member is always important to all of us here. We are like family and every member we lose to the great beyond, even though I don’t believe there is a beyond is important to every one of us.
I personally have contacted several members when they aren’t here for some time just to make sure they are OK.

Just remember he will never be truly gone and as long as his posts remain here on PFF he will always be a member here and a good friend to all.

I will ask Cliff if it is possible when we lose a member to change their avatar to a picture of the real person and a little info about their passing. You know sort of like a tombstone with their birth and death date so that we all know. Is it so wrong for people who knew him to be informed of his passing.

I like 99% of our members and would buy any of them a beer anytime they wish to stop by.

RIP John and may your Fiero in the sky never run out of gas.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 10:01 AM Click Here to See the Profile for Formula88Send a Private Message to Formula88Direct Link to This Post
Too young. Much to young.
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Originally posted by Formula88:

Too young. Much to young.


Yes, indeed.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 10:16 AM Click Here to See the Profile for blakeinspaceSend a Private Message to blakeinspaceDirect Link to This Post
awww man. Really, really sorry to read this. What a great forum member.

Brad, regardless of what the family thinks... Thank You for letting us know.

They may not realize the little car created a 'family' of a different definition.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 10:36 AM Click Here to See the Profile for tbone42Send a Private Message to tbone42Direct Link to This Post
John had made a purchase from me last year, and I had some interaction with him here and there in O/T. He was never mean-spirited or nasty, but funny and a little ornery and thats how I like them. He was only 3 years older than me, and this is a healthy reminder that if you guys have not had your health screenings and are approaching 40, perhaps its time? This is a terrible thing that happened to someone so young, a member of our little family here.

I will be making some appointments in short order to get my heart and other vitals checked out, I have put this off long enough. I knew when i was 23 years old I had high cholesterol and heart disease runs in my family. The time to ignore it because I am young is over, this is as much of a wake up call that I could hope for. I am sorry for Gecko going, and what his family must be going through. RIP fellow traveler, see you on the next road.

He's gone home.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 10:41 AM Click Here to See the Profile for twofatguysSend a Private Message to twofatguysDirect Link to This Post
The family never said nobody could be told. When asked what happened, where the funeral is/was, or where John is buried people are told that they were not his real friends and don't need to know any of that. (In much more derogatory terms)

I did not break the families wishes in any way. Everything I posted came from his Girlfriend, who has no problem with people knowing.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 11:06 AM Click Here to See the Profile for 84fiero123Send a Private Message to 84fiero123Direct Link to This Post
Just realized he was one of my FB friends and posted the Mary Frye poem on his FB page, just after your post Brad. I never go there very often so I didn’t even realize he had passed. Thank you Brad for posting the loss of a good friend.

He was a good man who will be missed.

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Report this Post08-13-2012 11:19 AM Click Here to See the Profile for BoondawgSend a Private Message to BoondawgDirect Link to This Post
You know, I read halfway down before I realized it was THAT Gecko!
I knew I reconized the face.
Man, that is sad.

I suspect the family are more angry with HIM and his choices in life then they are with his "non-friends".
It's just easier for them to face, that way.

RIP my friend.

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Damn, that is just wrong. Way too young. Best wishes to the family.
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Report this Post08-13-2012 01:01 PM Click Here to See the Profile for Jake_DragonSend a Private Message to Jake_DragonDirect Link to This Post
So sad

another page turns and another chapter is done. RIP
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Report this Post08-13-2012 03:02 PM Click Here to See the Profile for 82-T/A [At Work]Send a Private Message to 82-T/A [At Work]Direct Link to This Post
Man, poor guy... I really hate to read about this stuff. I didn't know him like some of you guys did, but pretty much everyone on here, even in O/T is a "doer"... not the Monty Python kind, but the kind of person who likes to get their hands dirty to fix things... and I have a lot of respect for people like that, regardless of their situation.

I hope it's not too innapropriate to discuss, but my brother had a "heart attack" also when he was 28. My parents responded in a similar fashion to the way it appears his family has. Unfortunately, for my brother's case... he was using drugs which caused the heart attack and he died. I've learned that people can do some pretty dumb things, but that shouldn't define who they are as a person... just like whatever the situation caused Gecko to end up the way he did, shouldn't be cause for a family to be disturbed. When the dust clears... most of us will only remember the positives of people.

Poor guy...
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Report this Post08-13-2012 04:15 PM Click Here to See the Profile for PatrickSend a Private Message to PatrickDirect Link to This Post
I was looking through the archives, re-reading a few threads where John and I had conversed. This thread, dating back to 2006, is unfortunately probably an early indication of what may have led to his untimely death.

In the hospital, already fixed, just waiting to go home

The following thread is probably the best example of the type of discussions that I most enjoyed with him.

Pics of my newest leopard geckos

He certainly loved his Leopard Geckos. This is how I will remember John...

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Originally posted by Patrick:

I was looking through the archives, re-reading a few threads where John and I had conversed. This thread, dating back to 2006, is unfortunately probably an early indication of what may have led to his untimely death.

In the hospital, already fixed, just waiting to go home



That made me weep.
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Thanks for sharing those... I was doing a similar thing, and was reading the thread regarding him and his GF...
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Sorry to hear it. You will be missed John.

(taking the rest to PM)

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Sorry to hear this Condolences to any that knew him.
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R.I.P. Gecko...

(I've cleaned up this thread out of respect for John. Before I get accused of censorship, you can read the entire original thread here.)
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Prayers and good thoughts for his family.
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Wait is th gecko from NJ?
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Originally posted by Cliff Pennock:

R.I.P. Gecko...

(I've cleaned up this thread out of respect for John. Before I get accused of censorship, you can read the entire original thread here.)


Thank you Cliff.

And R.I.P. John (Gecko).

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Originally posted by Gokart Mozart:

Thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. He will be missed here.


Same here.
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Originally posted by Cliff Pennock:

R.I.P. Gecko...

(I've cleaned up this thread out of respect for John. Before I get accused of censorship, you can read the entire original thread here.)


Thank you Cliff. Sometimes ones indignation can overcome discretion. Sometimes self censorship fails. I certainly do no want to disrespect the departed.
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Originally posted by Patrick:

I was looking through the archives, re-reading a few threads where John and I had conversed. This thread, dating back to 2006, is unfortunately probably an early indication of what may have led to his untimely death.

In the hospital, already fixed, just waiting to go home




...wow...
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