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DanDamage
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APR 02, 09:50 AM
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about 10 years ago I was with this girl that was leaving a country, we had one last night of passion. I remember the following year I would have dreams that I had a daughter. all my dreams are usually very realistic and come true or tell me about current things I would other wise not know about. So it stuck with me..
fast forward 10 years to now, and I discovered I have a daughter and the mother has never told me she still has not told me but I know the girl is mine. any advice? I really want to be in her life even though it's late it was not my choice it was thrust upon me by not being told[This message has been edited by DanDamage (edited 04-02-2015).]
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Stubby79
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APR 02, 11:10 AM
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What make/model/year is she? Any rust?
(....wrong section, maybe? )
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DanDamage
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APR 02, 01:30 PM
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I already tried to contact the mother and see where things go.
if the baby was born out of the country do I have to pay child support for the years she was out of the country?[This message has been edited by DanDamage (edited 04-02-2015).]
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jaskispyder
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APR 02, 01:52 PM
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The best advice... talk to a lawyer who deals with child custody issues.... and if you are asked to pay anything, get a paternity test first.
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DanDamage
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APR 02, 09:13 PM
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paternity test is a 100% must . Ok thanks , guess th is is rare?''
woman hiding child from father to even know they.exist
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jaskispyder
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APR 03, 01:59 PM
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| quote | Originally posted by DanDamage:
paternity test is a 100% must . Ok thanks , guess th is is rare?''
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(well, you posted this in the "other cars" area... which doesn't get a lot of traffic) 
Get all the facts before making assumptions. You believe you are the father, but until you have legal proof..... just saying[This message has been edited by jaskispyder (edited 04-03-2015).]
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DanDamage
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APR 03, 02:03 PM
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WAHAHAHAHA oops, guess it was an accident for a reason
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FriendGregory
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APR 10, 08:55 PM
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What type of car were you in when you added your seed?
This post is useless without pictures of the car.
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steve308
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JUN 25, 09:45 AM
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If the mother has not told you she does not want you in hers or the child's life therefore your concerns about child support are a non issue. What do you mean it was "thrust upon you by not being told"? It was a one night stand and she has chosen to not have you in her life or the life of the child. If you force yourself on her by requesting a DNA paternity test and she does not want you in their lives will you really be doing her the daughter and yourself any long term good? If she is back in country and you force the issue there is a chance she could claim rape (don't know the time limitation for rape if any) and you could open yourself up to a world of hurt and possible financial ruin maybe jail time.
If she is back in country and you are intent in possibly screwing up your life --- maybe accidently bump into the "one night of passion" mom - have a friendly conversation - let her tell you about her child and let her bring up that she is yours - if she doesn't don't press it. If you should meet the child later and the mom has not broken the news to you - act like you have just met the child of a single mom - be nice and go from there.
And yes --Moms hide their children from the "dad" all the time -- usually for a very good reason![This message has been edited by steve308 (edited 06-25-2015).]
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carnut122
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JUN 25, 11:27 AM
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I think you "better let sleeping dogs lie.". Maybe the child believes somebody else is her father in which case you can only mess up a stable situation in her life. I think the girl's mental well being trumps any needs of yours. I understand where you're coming from, but I just think you'll be opening up a can of worms on this one. [This message has been edited by carnut122 (edited 06-25-2015).]
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