Never give one anything you just wouldnt give to a friend anyway (you wouldnt believe how many want you to buy them things...' you should get me a computer...you should get me a car...you should buy me this dress') I do give away little things less extravagant when they DONT ask, like flowers, or an outfit (usually picked for my benefit so its ok ..)
Theres always more waiting, and generally better than the last.
IF you are going to get revenge, which I may or may not recommend.. Don't do it with pics and the internet.. Thats so.. easy, and sleazy and sad.. At least think big...
IF you are going to get revenge, which I may or may not recommend.. Don't do it with pics and the internet.. Thats so.. easy, and sleazy and sad.. At least think big...
Tie a dead dog to the underside of her car by a leash, so only other see it.
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buddycraigg Member
Posts: 13606 From: kansas city, mo Registered: Jul 2002
Like everyone else on here. its happened to me as well. 3 times in a row to be exact LOL.
Dont listen to all that advice the girls (the ones with penises included) are giving you. Go out and have some fun. Thats why women have 3 holes, because we get bored easily
If you want to have a nice care free summer. Get a ugly ass b!tch, make sure u use all 3 options and if she leaves, dumps you, or cheats........who cares. Let the next guy deal with her ugly ass
Oh and there ARE answers at the bottom of a bottle....you just have to drink em all.
Okay, I guess I'm going to come out of hiding for this one.
Will, I never told you this before, but YOU are one of those kids that I'm impressed by on here. You have enough maturity to take your sister in and help raise her right. I really applaud you for that, most brothers in that situation wouldn't do that, and from what I read, you are doing it well.
Now, before you go "sharing" photos with everyone, or posting them on the web. Just think, what if that was your sister? What if she was dating a guy and posed for him like your ex did for you. If she broke up with that guy, or perhaps cheated on that guy would you want her (your sisters) picture all over the net? Maybe just think about it.
Now, if you are going to go whoring around, which I'm sure you could find more girls out there, since you are a good looking guy. Please.........protect yourself. It might make you feel better for a bit, but will it make you feel better in the end?
Guys, I know you'll all come down hard on me for this one, but I've got 2 daughters, and if they ever posed for someone out of trust for them, I wouldn't want their pictures spread on the net no matter what they did.
PS.........I'm sorry it happened to you, you will find the right one when you aren't looking. She wasn't it. You are so young........don't throw stones at me for that one, but I was young once too, and when I was your age, I was married with one kid. Enjoy your youth, be true to yourself, and you'll come out on top and be the better man for it.
- Darlene (back in hiding I go)
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problem here is, if you do anything to get revenge on this girl
in her mind all you will be doing is giving her the 'evidence' she needs to be able to say "I knew it all along - you are a slimball"
and then, her cheating on you was perfectly justified, because you are a creep (in her mind)
my advice: take the high road - be the nice guy, that way her guilt remains on her head, and she has no 'out' for what she did to you - let her remain the slimball, dont let her off the hook
in fact, I'll bet shes hoping you do something low, so she can say "SEE! I knew it all along!"
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RandomTask Member
Posts: 4540 From: Alexandria, VA Registered: Apr 2005
People are giving you all kinds of bad advice. First...she's a whore. A guy can be a whore too. There is no double standard.
Second...now is the time to whore around. How can you know what kind of car to buy without testdriving. Think of her sister as a convertible. Slip the clutch dude. (I don't even know what that means)
Third..they invented the internet for one purpose...****. Use it! Post lots and post often. Need things hosted? We can hook you up.
Next...to the horny guys wanting the pictures..some advice. It's called google. Turn the lights down low and the safe search off and let what happens happen.
Dude, Sorry that this happened to you. It will get better, it always does. I won't call her a whore or any other name because you may still have some feelings for her. Rather small feelings, but feelings. She will get what she deserves.
I say instead of posting the pics on the net or wherever. You print out the pics and send them to her parents, freinds, grand parents, etc... you get the picture. Just make sure there is no return adress on the enevelope, or a fake one. Is that wrong? I dont think so.
But if you do decide to put them on the net, cover the face and you should be ok. Heck send them to me and I'll do it.
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slickrick2000 Member
Posts: 1369 From: Temecula, California Registered: Oct 2004
I also have 2 daughters, and no matter what they do in there life when they get older (under 8 now), I don't think anyone deserves to have private personal photos on the net for everyone to see.
From what I hear about you, you probably already know this too or you would have posted them.
Most everyone nowadays has had someone "cheat" on them at one time or another. I had the same girl cheat on me three different times before I finally got rid of her permantly (from my life). I kept getting back with her over the course of many years thinking she may have changed. She never did.
I spent many years in bars and clubs just having fun with women I would meet. By fun I mean casual friendships as well as casual relationships, all the while knowing what I wanted from a true relationship, and the partner I wanted to be in that relationship with. I also knew I wasn't going to find it or her in most of the places i was hanging out.
But just a few weeks before my 30th B-day, I met my wife. We both knew pretty damn quickly we wanted to get serious and get married. One thing I got from all my past experiences was that what i found in my wife, and what I have in my family is that it is very difficult to find, and I don't take that for granted. I also never stopped believing that she was out there and quit looking.
It sounds like you are headed in the right direction, and who knows, you may find someone a little faster than I did. But never settle, never quit looking completly, and don't comprimise yourself.
Hang in there.....it gets easier.
Rick
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wkayl Member
Posts: 2912 From: Loveland, Co Registered: Feb 2000
I don't know where you got the pictures. If you took them, keep them to yourself. If they are pictures "he" took, fair game. Just my opinion and you know what they say about opinions.
I don't know where you got the pictures. If you took them, keep them to yourself. If they are pictures "he" took, fair game. Just my opinion and you know what they say about opinions.
No I took them, no worries they arent going anywhere..but if they where I sure got enough PMs asking!
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Patrick Member
Posts: 37559 From: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Registered: Apr 99
I see some of you don't know women.. She won't have guilty.. In fact, in 6 months, he'll be the bad guy.. She'll tell all her friends and her new boyfriend.. You sir, inevitably, will end up as the 'jerk' in others eyes.. Don't ask me how it works..
I see some of you don't know women.. She won't have guilty.. In fact, in 6 months, he'll be the bad guy.. She'll tell all her friends and her new boyfriend.. You sir, inevitably, will end up as the 'jerk' in others eyes.. Don't ask me how it works..
Yep - I have given up a long time ago trying to figure out the elusive female psyches - it's just not worth the effort and makes my head hurt.
I don't think there is a pattern. They are all crazy in a different way. Some do it by saying the guy was an ******* after, even if he was the one who got screwed.. Some do it by begging.. Others have violent mood swings for no apparent reason (Not watching their program on tv comes to mine.. Not my gf though, thank god), some go literally insane after a drink (that was one of mine), the list goes on.. They just aren't.... balanced..
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Patrick Member
Posts: 37559 From: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Registered: Apr 99
I don't think there is a pattern. They are all crazy in a different way. Some do it by saying the guy was an ******* after, even if he was the one who got screwed.. Some do it by begging.. Others have violent mood swings for no apparent reason (Not watching their program on tv comes to mine.. Not my gf though, thank god), some go literally insane after a drink (that was one of mine), the list goes on.. They just aren't.... balanced..
Some own Fieros...lots of them!
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84SupperDuty Member
Posts: 357 From: Mid-Atlantic Registered: Jun 2004
Well, it could have been far worse. This thread topic could have read, "Wife caught cheating." That doesn't make the pain any less but there are fewer complications. Ooops...sorry, off with her head!
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Wolfhound Member
Posts: 5317 From: Opelika , Alabama, USA Registered: Oct 1999
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advice the girls (the ones with penises included) are giving you. Go out and have some fun. 
