Engine/Trans just use same oil or whatever that goes in the parts to seal the area.
Coolant parts can use straight coolant or brake/silicone grease/oil. Like can lube T-stat cap area to prevent rust but don't use engine and many other oils/grease or will wreck the seal.
Lube Brake "O-rings" and other parts can depend where the part lives when done.
Some can lube w/ clean Brake Fluid. Many get Brake Grease.
Sliders and related rubber parts get grease.
most piston seals just get fluid.
Dirt boots/seals need nothing or tiny coat of Brake grease.
See my Cave,
Brake Service and the rest of section.
AC uses same AC Oil that system uses or Nylog on most joints, O-rings, etc.
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Dr. Ian Malcolm: Yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should.
(Jurassic Park)
The Ogre's Fiero Cave