Looks like the hole in the banjo was improperly punched during manufacture, leaving a burr as a defect:
I suggest removing the MC from the car, then use a drill to remove the burr. Secure the banjo in a vise.
With the burr removed the banjo should slip onto the pin. Be sure to test the fit between the banjo and the pin, before bolting the assembly into the car.
As a matter of good practice, remove any sharp edges you may have created following drilling.
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I'm also wondering if there was some parts mismatch error that caused your first banjo to break...
[This message has been edited by pmbrunelle (edited 09-29-2020).]