My ex wife had an ally in her harassment: The US ARMY!!! She stayed in the town adjacent to where I was stationed and after our divorce, she went to my commander, the chaplain, the IG or anyone who would listen to her. Seriously, I kept a copy of my divorce decree in the car and receipts of our settlement. I finally called a friend of mine at Army personnel who had me put on orders for Okinawa and I was in Oki before the witch knew I was gone.
She still harassed me through friends who wrote to tell me what a jerk I am because I kept my daughter and didn't give her anything. Thank goodness she found a another sucker and remarried. And divorced and remarried and remarried and...