when i try to aim at "my league girls" , its like they think they're better than me or some crap, either that or i mess it up somehow. But when i aim for the foxes, I hardly ever strike out.
[This message has been edited by DanDamage (edited 09-09-2014).]
I have been told that very attractive women have self worth issues as much as "average" looking guys do. Alot of attractive women are not approched by guys because they seem out of the guys league to the guy. This leaves the attractive women to be hit on by jerks. Women don't like jerks they like nice guys! You just have to go talk to them . Most of the time they are tired of the jerks and respond very well to the nice guys no matter of their average or below league looks. You'd be suprised !!!!!! I know i was holy crap!
I have been told that very attractive women have self worth issues as much as "average" looking guys do. Alot of attractive women are not approched by guys because they seem out of the guys league to the guy. This leaves the attractive women to be hit on by jerks. Women don't like jerks they like nice guys! You just have to go talk to them . Most of the time they are tired of the jerks and respond very well to the nice guys no matter of their average or below league looks. You'd be suprised !!!!!! I know i was holy crap!
This is exactly what I hear from lots of the very attractive girls I know. They say few ask them out for fear of being rebuffed. Girls all seem to have a 'bad boy' stage they go thru like pubicence. They dont mind being treated like crap because a guy is 'hot'. They soon tire of that....a few never do. Im old (although told by everyone I dont look my true age) and definately NOT even close to what Id consider good looking. I have never had a problem dating much younger and hot looking girls...because I treat them well and respectful, dont cheat on them, and never raise a hand at them. I even go a little out of my way sometimes to research some of their interests that I may not have. Ive rarely ever met a girl I couldnt have a 2 hour conversation with on just about anything. My current gf of over a year is 31, but looks like shes 23. She could be my granddaughter chronolgically. We have not had a single fight or disagreement. Im also not interested in marriage or live ins. I strictly date for fun and company. I never make any advances...I let the girl make the first move if interested. Word gets out when your just a nice guy that doesnt pressure anyone.Id much rather a girl tell her gfs Im really nice and fun, than her to tell them Im such a jerk. Ive even dated sisters...and they both knew it. So thank you to all the jerks with their preppy looks and designer clothes, for pushing all your gfs to me. Ive even had girls propose to me.
I wont even go out with a girl 'I' consider ugly...def wont marry. I have dry spells once in a while, but rather be without than with someone who dont turn me on just to look at. Of course they also say beauty is the eye of the beholder...and I think I have a pretty good beholder record.
Yesterday was my birthday and one of my younger 'friends' just left after spending the nite giving me my present.... .....and it was gooddddd.
[This message has been edited by rogergarrison (edited 09-11-2014).]
Originally posted by DanDamage: i dont consider myself a very good looking dude
when i try to aim at "my league girls" , its like they think they're better than me or some crap, either that or i mess it up somehow. But when i aim for the foxes, I hardly ever strike out.
is this a problem? I guess by topic title - call it a gift
wow man, this is amazing, God really blessed me this time
I got some good advice from a good friend once, he told me that no matter how good looking the lady is, some dude at some time got tired of her "attitude". Define attitude how ever you wish.
The same friend also told me that if it's got tires or boobs, you're gonna have problems with it. This friend is rarely wrong.
Then again, he also says that every thing needs preventive maintenance. Go figure.
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[This message has been edited by blackrams (edited 09-19-2014).]
.....and it was gooddddd.
